Neha Parmar

They say Girls Notice stupid small things, Yes we do! I do notice, When He tiptoed in my room late night, to check my temperature when I was sick.... The ways he still holds my hand while crossing road.... I noticed that water sparkle in his eyes, when someone talks about sending me to in -laws 😅 I notice his Proud face when u say "Mera beta he ye to"😊 I noticed when how he was dying inside everyday, fighting all the demons to protect his Daughter.. I noticed all the struggles my DAD goes through , I just don't say anything... I do Notice, I do notice how he beats around the bush, just to know which guy I am texting 😛 I do notice he talks up the guy I like to our parents... I do notice he burning inside to punish the people that cause me any harm.. I do notice he being protective, around my guy friends.. I do notice he not leaving the house or watching all those series or playing games with me in my worst of days.. I do notice how My BROTHER cares and ...

I used to hate him more than any thing in the world, why wouln't I?? He used to tear all my books up! He never used to let me watch TV!! He once convinced me that I was picked up from some gutter.(Dad actually had to show me the Birth certificate and all to prove I am their child :'D) He used to eat all my chocolates, Tease me in front of all my friends,tell everyone embarrassing stories about me, He used to add salt in my water bottle! He used to tie me up in chair and go out to play, He never accepted me as a part of his team, always giving me the task of fielding, even convinced me that batting is for losers! O_0 He practiced aiming airgun by keeping me as target :( Once a dog bit me, and he convinced me I was slowly turning into one..O_O But then he also,used to sign my remark note instead of dad. He also used to convince dad to let me go on tours. He also used to buy a new toy, whenever he had one. He used to help me learn all sorts of video games! eve...

"Who is the most important person in your life?" When someone asked this to me, frankly I was clueless, and like most of us would do, to give answer to that question I blankly said  "Parents". What moved me was what came next, the response was "IT'S YOU." This small incident got me thinking, and I never realized  it would change me so much. And then suddenly everything was clearer to me.I have seen so many people including myself, who value someone so much, that in the process you lose yourself, be it their parents, friends or partner. Its is now that I realize, the worst thing one can do is losing yourself in the process of valuing someone too much. Have we just for once stopped and wondered what would make us happy? or let me do this for my own happiness rather than for someone else. when in the time of need or when like most of us would say  "When you are BROKEN", remember the only person who can help you is "YOU",...

                                                          Society, I think once upon a time, a group of people decided some rules on how humans are supposed to behave, those who didn't agree created their own rules, and thus  formed different societies. There were reasons of their own for the rules, by the passing time these rules needed to change, but the didn't and took the shape of superstitions. The main problem with the birth of superstition was lack of curiosity, no one ever asked "OK but Why??" Some reasons of Indian superstitions do have scientific reasons behind them like, plants during occasions are kept to balance the amount of  carbon dioxide and oxygen in that particular room, but when some one asked why, some lazy fellow said "Because it brings prosperity!" ans that is what has continues till now!! And some, I ha...

                                                               Why do people make mistake?? How many times do we tell ourselves “Y did I had to do that?” “If only I haven’t taken that step!” Mistakes happen it’s in Human nature. But when you make the same mistake again and again after every time telling yourself won’t do it now, is a sign you need to change! OK I realise I made a mistake, what should I do now. How can I undo it?? (Very next question in mind) and then you set off to do all those list of things you feel will make it right. Maybe it may help. BUT beware mind is not always right. Mostly people in order to correct the once made mistake end up doing couple of more, making things too complicated and making situation worst then it was.. Sometimes you have to let go. You have to realise you did whatever it c...

Its been long since I have been thinking about blogging! You know somethings you always wanted to but then it kinda remained in the back of your head constantly reminding you -You wanna do this you wanna do that, u HAVE to do this and stuffs! Irritating isn't it?? So before this vacations started, I thought this time I am gonna do something productive, have the fullest out of it! And here I am after a month, sitting here eating "kurkure"  and searching through YouTube videos , doing nothing!! Frankly we all have that thought, "the beginning spark" if we may. But eventually deep down you know nothings gonna happen we are gonna end up like this just killing time.. So, everyday i thought to myself, Yaar do something productive tomorrow and fell a sleep with a to do list. and finally  I am taking that steps , completing my pile of "to-do-list" Searching my passion, doing what i always wanted to. and I realized best ways to get that irritating ...